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I want to buy my year-old niece a dildo, some lube, and an age-appropriate book about sex. Can you recommend one? I live in Oregon. Do you think it would be inappropriate for me to cross that boundary with my niece? Any other advice on how to handle it appropriately would be appreciated. I am motivated to do this due to my own teenage experience of not wanting a penis to be the first thing of substance put in my vagina. I had to resort to a plastic banana, no lube. All any year-old boy who wants to experiment with penetration—for his own pleasure, to build up his confidence in advance of partnered sex—has to do is make a fist. Pritchett also suggests that instead of selecting a sex toy for your niece, WTT, you take your niece to a sex-toy shop so she can make her own selection—because hey, what could be awkward about that? We would need to get written consent from the legal parent or guardian and the parent or guardian would have to accompany them.
Updated: January 20, References. It's totally normal to be curious about your body and your sexuality as a teen. Getting a sex toy can help you figure out what feels good to you and allows you to relieve your sexual urges.